Monday, March 6, 2017

Vices


Vices

It’s good to have some vices. Sounds like a contradictory statement, I know. But as human beings, we seek happiness. And isn’t one of our inalienable rights as Americans the right to pursue happiness?

Of course, getting carried away with evil deeds and/or getting addicted to something malevolent is not prudent or wise.

What I think I’m trying to get at here is more about what makes us tick. Questions about values come up frequently when we say things like, “You can’t trust a person who doesn’t drink,” or “Who wants to go to heaven if you have to give up [fill in whatever vice you consider fun]?”

A cogent discussion about such matters is nearly impossible. Why we act on things that our “better angels” would advise us against is, well, part of the human condition.

After giving up so much, both good and bad, I find that I miss both the good and the bad equally. I realize, however, more forcefully the consequences of the latter. That is to say, “bad” is easily recognizable by the pain and suffering it causes. And simply put, “good” perpetuates more of what’s good. (But I’m sure bad does the same.)

Is there even a right answer? Perhaps if we break things down, organize, and compartmentalize them, we can get a better picture and a better handle on what good and bad, right and wrong, and pure and profane truly mean. But after doing all that, we might not get any closer to the answer. All the shades of grey get in the way.

Life’s complicated. That’s universally understood and accepted. But such a statement is not an answer. Religion tries and fails, not that it isn’t persuasive. And what of personal beliefs? The problem is that they come from outside influences as much as, if not more than, internal constructs.

Okay, not sure where I was going with this. I’m at a neurotic impasse. I'd have to say the right answer is to find it for yourself. Let all else be damned! Enjoy the moment and all things with as much moderation as you can possibly muster. Otherwise, learn to know better next time by allowing yourself that next time. And above all, own up to your mistakes.

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